Confidence boost up?u ll get 10 points?

well actually i m the eldest girl in my family %26amp; just got my exams results!


i ve got a bro whos 1 year younger than me,now


this year he ll sit 4 the exams


i m a little worry zat hw he ll work 4 the exams


becoz my father continuously humiliate him


moreover my bro stay infront of computer just to play games





hw can i convince him 2 start revision %26amp;.........


plz do advise me


i often talk abt his studies wiz him but i wanna c


some positive changes in him!

Confidence boost up?u ll get 10 points?
Melissa, I want to say your brother is so lucky to have you as his sister. Your love for him is something that will go beyond your childhood and will be a gift between you for your lifetimes!





I want to be careful what I say because I feel your strong need to help your brother, but you need to know that you can only be responsible for your own choices. You can't be responsible for the choices of your brother (or your father). You can talk to your brother, nag your brother, reason with your brother, and most importantly encourage your brother with phrases like, "If you just put in 20 minutes a day, I know you'll feel better about your exams" or "I'll help you study 20 minutes a day because I've already taken them and know what you can expect"...but you can't be responsible for the choices your brother makes.





Good luck to you and your brother. You are a very special young lady!
Reply:well i had the same issue...wah i mean is, i have an older sis n during my exams she was jst like u..haha, aniwais da onli way u can get ur brotha to study is be nice to him, dont let ur father humiliate him cuz dat wont help, make a nice schedule for him, like few hours computer and few hours study. u should also talk to him more often abt his life, game life or anything to make him feel like ur noh jst hes sis, u can be frnd too...so try that it will work foh sure, i have my lil bro controlled :D gud luck
Reply:Try to figure out what he is thinking. Asking directly will not work with boys, so this will take some time, perhaps weeks, and he may become angry with you every now and then. You can only help him when you know about his thoughts.





You could point out that your father is doing unjustice to him, and that the best answer in such cases is: doing well, in school or elsewhere. Tell him that you are on his side, but be careful not to say this too often, or he will find you a nuisance.


I hope this helps.





By the way: your spelling is so bad that the question is nearly unreadable. You will get many more answers to a well-written question.
Reply:Well, I'm just like your brother and I'm sitting for a big exam this year. Not the last one.


It's just like one of the answers he said, don't ask directly.


Try to understand him. Try to gain his faith on you.


Besides, I do sit and...not exactly play the computer but just the net and I don't really wanna get 100% along truthfully with my family. So, I'm just being childish to them like sometimes ignore them or not answering seriously.





If your little brother's in the same case as mine.


I suggests that the only thing that's gonna change him is a real and understanding friend. Family's really not gonna help.


They're just gonna add up more and more trouble to him.


Emotional one, that is.