C r u s h!?!?!?

Okay im 13 years old and in the 7th grade. im not popular, but im not a nerd either. there's this guy i reallyy like (its hard to explain why i like him) i mean i reallyy liked him and i have liked him for a long time now. i have a few problems though. 1. he's popular and would probably never give me the time of day 2. i have no classes or anything with him. 3. he doesnt know i exist 4. i am not overweight but im have a little extra on my stomach, i dont know if im pretty or not i dont think i am, and i have a really low self estem.


what i would like to know is





how to get him to notice me! how to talk to him if he does, how to get him to like me (i know you cant make someone fall in love with you but what to do to have the best chance of him liking me), any thing else along these lines





how to lose 2 inches off my stomach in the next month (to boost my confidence a little bit)





any hair/makeup/beauty tips to improve my appearance

C r u s h!?!?!?
Confidence is sexy. Have confidence and men notice you. When you have confidence, you are more outgoing. To lose weight, don't diet. It is unhealthy and doesn't work. Just eat better food and exercise. Thats it. You'll lose inches before you know it. And you ARE pretty. Every girl is pretty in their own unique way. Just be yourself and have fun with your friends and he will notice you. :)
Reply:crushes, I remeber when I had those


but just go up and talk to him


but I don't know the chances of him liking you because I don't know but to start off is hanging out with him
Reply:i went through all my younger years being the shy, quiet girl that no one noticed me. I did have many friends, but was overweight, had low self esteem, etc. I never asked a boy out, or had any courage like that; and was always sad because of it. A friend of a friend asked me out one day when i was 16. im 23 now, just left him last month, and am having to get courage to make moves on boys and stuff all over again and its really hard. Im still overweight and such. In the last month I have learned so much about myself, and have learned what guys like and dont like. All I can say is that what u have to do is be yourself, and dont care what other people think because guys LOVE a girl with confidence. even if u dont have it, u gotta act like u do.





beauty tips--keep ur eyebrows plucked nicely and if u wear makeup, do so very lightly--dont try and apply extra just becuz u think it will get u noticed.





to lose the weight u r uncomfie with, drink lots of water. 10 glasses a day. and do 50 crunches a day, a jog in place for 5-10 minutes a day (Doesnt have to be all at once, a minute here, a minute there), and u will lose the inches in less then a month.





Try and be more outgoing though, and making ppl laugh will definetly get his attention and he will want to learn who u r. Its all in ur mind and u need to learn how to over come that. it took me 23 years to realize all the things i missed out on just becuz i let my mind over power everything and letting what ppl thought of me control my life. Dont make the same mistake I did.





And btw, ur perfect and dont need to worry about a couple extra inches, most guys like a meat on the bones, but i understand being self conscious about it.

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